生了三个孩子，我很忙。大女儿每天早上6.45有帮佣带她走路去学校（除了星期日我要自己载送），星期一到星期五，早上7.40 我必须载送小女儿去幼儿园，然后直奔gym。我的7days gym的会员到三月多就没了，过后应该会去店做运动因为那里有gym room了。
再来，我最迟9.30要到家，因为这个时候佣人在厨房煮，小儿子在房间睡觉，他有时都会在这个时候起来，有时可以睡到十点多。我到家后要冲凉，这时我希望张小郎还在睡觉的，不然我就没办法安心的冲凉。大概10.30，帮佣煮好冲凉后，我就把张小郎交给她。这个时候我都是坐在电脑前做有的没的。
十二点，张爸载小女儿回家。这时我就要监督小女儿吃饭做功课。她吃饭很慢。吃饭做完功课再冲凉都大概要一点了，然后就给她睡午觉（她自己在房里睡）。有时张小郎也会在这个时候睡。这时张爸载张大女放学回家。张大女自己吃，做功课和冲凉。过后如果有补习就去补，如果没有就在家里做复习。有时她会小睡一下。这时，我必须监督她做功课。这个时候我都不会顾到张小郎，只是有时看到他时会宝宝他跟他玩一下。
小女儿天天都要额外的补习。张大女就不是天天都有。我的工作就是监督他们做功课，一有空我就会给他们做课外的作业。
我 想我是不是忽略了张小郎。可是我不能一个时间做两件事啊。。。
Wednesday, 17 February 2016
Wednesday, 20 January 2016
对不起宝贝
前几天，张郎出差去缅甸，我一个人顾三个（其实一向来都是我在顾），不过要命的是家里在做装修，我必须联络做水的，做砖的，油漆的和装门的等等等来做工。除此之外，小儿子发烧（我就要负责喂药还有让小儿子和我睡，大女儿女在睡另一间，平常他们三个都睡一间）再加上大女的手过敏，两只手掌和手背都一粒一粒，我负责跟他擦药 （三种药）。我真的累垮了。
而我在忙的当儿我还必须同时监督张大女的功课。她的华语比较差。课本的课文读了很多遍可是她不明白课文的内容。我已经够忙的了，加上睡眠不足。于是有两天我是用喊的来跟她解释。而她却边做边哭。我真的也好想哭。不过还是忍住了。张小女也间接遭殃，难逃我的“恶嘴”。
昨晚张郎回来了，在路上时他打给我，问我为什么之前打两通电话给我我没接？我说我很气，我不想说话。他也知道张大女被我骂得狗血淋头了。他回到家时，看到裝沐浴露的铁架（我多装一个比较矮的给孩子们用的），装在另一个地方，他就怪我说，他已经告诉我要装在哪里了，为什么我还弄错？我真的不记得了。然后我说你够了！我今天已经够气了。
然后泪一直往下流。当时张小郎在哭，张郎在厕所，我换了衣服，一句话也没说，连张小郎也没哄，就走了。我心里很难受，为什么自己要对张大女这么的大喊大叫。只不过是功课。然后我很矛盾应不应该多给她华语补习(既然我没有耐心教她）。一直到现在我还在挣扎。。。
是我要求太高？是课程太难？还是张大女比较慢？还是我要让他去陪读？我真的不知道自己该怎么做对她才是最好的。
虽然事后我一直跟宝贝道歉，说我不该这么骂她。 自己也一直一直在控制自己的情绪，可是还是爆发了。在这里还是要跟张大宝贝说是妈妈不好，妈妈不会管理自己的情绪，把气出在你的身上。对不起，妈妈还是很爱很爱你的。
我一定要天天跟自己说孩子是夸出来的，而不是骂出来的。还有就是通常那些自杀的孩子们通常成绩都不错的。也许是父母给太大的压力，加上自己不能配合父母的要求之下走上绝路。我们必须配合孩子和不是孩子来配合我们。
而我在忙的当儿我还必须同时监督张大女的功课。她的华语比较差。课本的课文读了很多遍可是她不明白课文的内容。我已经够忙的了，加上睡眠不足。于是有两天我是用喊的来跟她解释。而她却边做边哭。我真的也好想哭。不过还是忍住了。张小女也间接遭殃，难逃我的“恶嘴”。
昨晚张郎回来了，在路上时他打给我，问我为什么之前打两通电话给我我没接？我说我很气，我不想说话。他也知道张大女被我骂得狗血淋头了。他回到家时，看到裝沐浴露的铁架（我多装一个比较矮的给孩子们用的），装在另一个地方，他就怪我说，他已经告诉我要装在哪里了，为什么我还弄错？我真的不记得了。然后我说你够了！我今天已经够气了。
然后泪一直往下流。当时张小郎在哭，张郎在厕所，我换了衣服，一句话也没说，连张小郎也没哄，就走了。我心里很难受，为什么自己要对张大女这么的大喊大叫。只不过是功课。然后我很矛盾应不应该多给她华语补习(既然我没有耐心教她）。一直到现在我还在挣扎。。。
是我要求太高？是课程太难？还是张大女比较慢？还是我要让他去陪读？我真的不知道自己该怎么做对她才是最好的。
虽然事后我一直跟宝贝道歉，说我不该这么骂她。 自己也一直一直在控制自己的情绪，可是还是爆发了。在这里还是要跟张大宝贝说是妈妈不好，妈妈不会管理自己的情绪，把气出在你的身上。对不起，妈妈还是很爱很爱你的。
我一定要天天跟自己说孩子是夸出来的，而不是骂出来的。还有就是通常那些自杀的孩子们通常成绩都不错的。也许是父母给太大的压力，加上自己不能配合父母的要求之下走上绝路。我们必须配合孩子和不是孩子来配合我们。
Monday, 4 January 2016
谢谢老公
之前张妹一直约我去JPO,可是一直没去成，直到前天她又提起，然后我和张郎索性决定第二天（昨天）去。昨天是张大女的开学第一天，早上我送她去，然后下课时我和张郎一起送食物去给她吃，过后我们去家附近吃早餐后就出发。张大女就托我老姐载她回家。
每次去我们都会去几间我们大家都很喜欢的店。第一间就是去Burberry。我们在那是花最多时间的。平常都是看有没有小孩或老公的衣服，自己的很少买过，因为款式都不是很喜欢。这次张郎看到了一款包包，然后就要我买。平常我很少买我已经买很多的东西，话说我去欧洲买了很多包包，虽然不是什么大名牌，不过对我来说已经可以用上很多年。
张郎的一番好意却被我念。过后我内疚不已，然后就一直问他那个包真的好看？他说喜欢就买。其实这一类型的包包我找很久，可是我没有急用，所以对我而言是不重要的。可是对他来说，如果没有，看到就可以买。可是我却兴致缺缺，而他却兴致勃勃。
就这样买了这个包包，过后还特地去买一个放纸币的皮包。虽然跟张郎和张妹比起来，我是那个花最少钱的，不过我真的很过意不去。 张郎，谢谢你。你总是知道我要的是什么，谢谢你非常的了解我，你不会怕我花你的钱（我花钱比较省，有的东西不会再买），还“鼓励”我买。我只能说遇见你，是我的荣幸，不过却是你的不幸。哈哈哈。。。
希望我们两能永远开心的生活到永远。。
Burberry的斜背包和Tumi的皮包，这是出门用的，装两个电话，皮包，纸巾，护照。之前其实我买了一个，不过有点大。
每次去我们都会去几间我们大家都很喜欢的店。第一间就是去Burberry。我们在那是花最多时间的。平常都是看有没有小孩或老公的衣服，自己的很少买过，因为款式都不是很喜欢。这次张郎看到了一款包包，然后就要我买。平常我很少买我已经买很多的东西，话说我去欧洲买了很多包包，虽然不是什么大名牌，不过对我来说已经可以用上很多年。
张郎的一番好意却被我念。过后我内疚不已，然后就一直问他那个包真的好看？他说喜欢就买。其实这一类型的包包我找很久，可是我没有急用，所以对我而言是不重要的。可是对他来说，如果没有，看到就可以买。可是我却兴致缺缺，而他却兴致勃勃。
就这样买了这个包包，过后还特地去买一个放纸币的皮包。虽然跟张郎和张妹比起来，我是那个花最少钱的，不过我真的很过意不去。 张郎，谢谢你。你总是知道我要的是什么，谢谢你非常的了解我，你不会怕我花你的钱（我花钱比较省，有的东西不会再买），还“鼓励”我买。我只能说遇见你，是我的荣幸，不过却是你的不幸。哈哈哈。。。
希望我们两能永远开心的生活到永远。。
Monday, 28 December 2015
The sweetest and busiest December
8th December 2015 - Hubby has been asking me to change both of my handphones for the whole journey when we went to Had Yai. Reasons are my Iphone's memory are full, my Mi 3 is a bit lag and not responsive anymore. I am the draggy one because it doesn't really cause me any big problems but i will just keep nagging when the phone is not working (for a while only i swear). So while i was sleeping, he called up his friend to bring one new Iphone 6 plus pink color on Wednesday when we go back from the trip. We reached our hometown quite early around 6pm and then we send the iphone to his friend to transfer all the files to the new phone and so, there goes my new phone. Thank you Darling..
21st December 2015 - Eldest bro so happen to have night stop in Singapore, so i brought two girls following my 2nd bro, sil and mum to Singapore. The traffic was unexpectedly smooth without any jam at all. Hubby was supposed to come after he finished work at JB but the jam was too long and he took a U turn before entering Malaysia check point. We left BP at 9am and reached home at 1.30 am. Something funny happened during the trip. As we are going to walk from somewhere the bus drop us to Garden By the Bay, we passed by one building. We were looking for ways to that place and we were passing by a glass building. I spotted "someone" like a guard, standing by the entrance of the building and i asked the rest to wait for me, i will just quickly ask for the ways.
"Excuse me, may i know the way to go to the Garden by the Bay?"
..... no answer.
"Excuse me???"
Then i realized i was speaking to a wax people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My first reaction is to look around to see anyone looking at me. The next is i bring my two kids and laughing around and tell them the whole story... hahahahahahah....
23th December 2015 - i took bus to KL at 630pm and hubby went and picked me. i have a gathering with my friends on the next day. We went to Yeast for breakfast ( actually we just wanna find a place to sit before the place that we would like to go is opened). Then we headed to TGI for brunch and Magnum for ice cream.
26the December 2015 - We celebrated eldest daughter's birthday in Mc Donald as she wished, and spend these few days with families as 4th bro is back.
27 December 2015 - Me and hubby went to Singapore at 630am and back home at 130 pm. we went to do somethings there and wanna avoid the hectic jam because we need to attend wedding dinner.
21st December 2015 - Eldest bro so happen to have night stop in Singapore, so i brought two girls following my 2nd bro, sil and mum to Singapore. The traffic was unexpectedly smooth without any jam at all. Hubby was supposed to come after he finished work at JB but the jam was too long and he took a U turn before entering Malaysia check point. We left BP at 9am and reached home at 1.30 am. Something funny happened during the trip. As we are going to walk from somewhere the bus drop us to Garden By the Bay, we passed by one building. We were looking for ways to that place and we were passing by a glass building. I spotted "someone" like a guard, standing by the entrance of the building and i asked the rest to wait for me, i will just quickly ask for the ways.
"Excuse me, may i know the way to go to the Garden by the Bay?"
..... no answer.
"Excuse me???"
Then i realized i was speaking to a wax people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My first reaction is to look around to see anyone looking at me. The next is i bring my two kids and laughing around and tell them the whole story... hahahahahahah....
23th December 2015 - i took bus to KL at 630pm and hubby went and picked me. i have a gathering with my friends on the next day. We went to Yeast for breakfast ( actually we just wanna find a place to sit before the place that we would like to go is opened). Then we headed to TGI for brunch and Magnum for ice cream.
26the December 2015 - We celebrated eldest daughter's birthday in Mc Donald as she wished, and spend these few days with families as 4th bro is back.
27 December 2015 - Me and hubby went to Singapore at 630am and back home at 130 pm. we went to do somethings there and wanna avoid the hectic jam because we need to attend wedding dinner.
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