Friday 25 October 2013

消失两礼拜

接下来的两个星期,孩子逃课,张郎逃“工”,下星期二我,张郎,张妹,张爸,张女 (我女儿啦) 和张家亲戚,和一些陌生人将参与张舅的8天7夜九寨沟团。又再一次抛下张小布(为什么叫她张小布?因为小时候她时常噗,噗放“气”所以叫小布),旅行去。希望这次平安的去,平安的回。

等下孩子下课后回家梳洗,就要回乡了。张郎昨天就回了,因为今天是他搭档的结婚喜日,所以今晚要去参加婚宴了。耶!要扮美美咯!明天又要赶上来,因为是小布的家长日,还有表演。不过明天就回乡了。在想是不是该请一位司机勒?

最近张郎闹头晕,所以又去看了医生,又再测量他一整天的血压,换了药。医生还建议他做头部扫描,怕会脑中风!什么?脑中风?天啊!!!!我当下真的很害怕,我开始胡思乱想,就在想如果有一天他真的倒下,该怎么办?说真的,如果他倒下,我就出去做工养家,真正的负担是医药费,房屋贷款,和孩子的学费。如果最坏的事发生,我想我会带着孩子出国吧。我是不是想太多?人真的很难预测下一秒发生的事。有打算是好的,不然到时候会惊慌失措的。

昨天看一部戏 About Schmidt 是描述一个66岁老头的生活,他曾经是保险业的主席,有一番事业。退休后,对自己身边的事物比较在意,发现自己老了,嫌老婆老了,婆婆妈妈,再也不是以前的老婆了,唯一的女儿在很远的地方做工。然后老婆死了,他的生活变得邋遢,他决定自己驾车去旅行。他尝试阻止女儿结婚,因为对他未来女婿有偏见。可是阻止不了。戏的结局我没看到。不过看了这部戏,我在想,如果我能活到66岁,我的另一半会嫌我吗?如果只剩我一个,那我又是怎样的呢?那我又会不会干涩孩子的终身大事呢? 老是件可怕的事啊,好好孝顺我们家的两老,也许他们也还没适应他们现在的自己。

明天是张郎的生日,希望他身体健康,血压健康,平平安安。
不管发生什么事,还有我和孩子在你身旁。

Friday 18 October 2013

Long weekend

We had a long weekend spent in our hometown last week. Monday, I went to Singapore with sis to do some bank thing and books hunting for our kids. We took bus from BP to JB, JB to Woodlands. While we were queuing up for the bus to go back JB from SG, we met a mother of 4, waiting for the bus with her two daughters. After chatting, we got to know that she stays in JB and send all her 4 kids to  Singapore to study, monthly fee for four is 1k SG dollar (one of her son is under scholarship). I believe all her kids are very doing great in studies as they don't go for tuition, but do exercise at home.

After meeting this mum, and my encounter with a chinese doctor who also send his two sons to Singapore to study, i really have the urge to do the same thing. But looking at my eldest daughter behavior towards studying, it could be a bit difficult. She likes to go to school, she will do homework everyday without much supervision, but she couldn't really understand what is being taught especially in English. I did not want to push her as i know everyone has different pace in learning.

Realizing that i seldom write about my two princess, i would like to write a bit about them.
Eldest Daughter, born on end of 2008, overall she is a lovely daughter who doesn't really make a lot of fuss except when she is very tired. She can shower on her own now and she would request for your compliment every time after she shower.

Younger Daughter, born on second quarter of 2011, is 2 years 2 months old now. She has been attending school since she was 18 months old. She is mischievous sometimes, and likes to shout over small little things that she is not happy with. Apart from that, she too is quite obedient and a caring little fellow.



Thursday 10 October 2013

放长假咯

其实还没啦,只是下礼拜二才会回来吉隆坡而已·。不过这样的长周末可不常有啊。我最近在秘密(也没秘密啦)忙着做些东西,如果一切顺利,那我以后可有得忙了。现在是处于只欠东风的状态。只要全部策划好,那就全新出动咯!

今天我处于非常振奋的状态,因为我竟然自己做一个网站也,而且也只花几小时而已,是免费的啦。现在网站只剩还没输入地址(因为还没确定要用哪个地址)。等全部搞定后我就会大公开啦。希望 一切能够在这星期内落实,那我就要开工大吉了。

博比一切顺利!!祝我好运吧!!

Monday 7 October 2013

Beautiful week ahead

Last Saturday, i went to Singapore with Mr. Teo to meet one client. We set off at 7am in a rainy morning. Had simple breakfast at Parit Raja, not the "pao" shop but a coffee shop selling Malay food. Then we headed straight to the Lion City with slow moving traffic all along from the bridge.

After meeting up with client, it was already 12pm,then we went to Orchard and buy something before leaving. We took the second link to avoid the heavy traffic in Woodlands but it not as what we expected. Heavy jam.... We then went to JPO for some shopping, reached at 5.

While we were almost finished our shopping, Mr. Teo and I were arguing about who is going to drive back home. (I drove all the way to JB, he drove in JB - Singapore - JPO.) Then we were complaining how tired and sleepy we were, and then i started to show him my watery red eyes. He showed me  his too. We both end up standing in front of the mirror in Burberry, comparing whose is worse while waiting for the sales assistant to bring some stuff. Without notice we actually stood in front of the mirror for quite sometime, suddenly i realized someone(the sales assistant) was laughing at us. We all burst out into laughing. Looking at how childish we are, it is really fun to do something like that once in a while (actually we do it quite often).

After that, we decided that each of us take the half journey and i drove first. I ended up drove all the way home. I had a great day though, so i don't really mind driving and we gained a lot from this trip, especially our alone time. To me, alone time is very important, it doesn't mean that we have to do it very frequent, it is fine to do once or twice a year, because it really bring us closer.

As usual we came back KL on Sunday and we reached at 12am. Guess what? Mr. Teo was doing some planting after we reached

                                   See this crazy man!!by the way, he drove all the way to KL

                                              The most attractive moment of a man. Agree?